What’s missing?

What is lost or hidden with most teachers of law of assumption, law of attraction, or manifestation in general.

We’ve all seen them. The YouTube channels, the TikTok channels, and the Instagram posts that claim to get you a text from your SP in 30 minutes. We have all seen those posts. Get your SP to conform to your wildest wishes in five days.

I’ve studied self improvement for more than 30 years now. And there is no special way to get your special person to conform to your wishes and desires in 24 hours or five days.

What most of these people are missing is the fact the law of assumption or law of attraction or manifestation, as a whole, was never meant as a magic wand. It is a lifestyle. It is something that you have to nurture and grow with from the inside. It is changing you, the person, from the inside out . That’s what they’re missing. That’s what they’re neglecting to tell you.

You are not going to get your special person back in two weeks and have a sustained long lasting relationship by trying some quick fix or special technique to get them to conform to your thoughts and wishes in 24 hours. It’s just not going to work like that.

You have to change. And that my friends is going to take time. That’s what they’re not telling you. And the reason they’re not telling you that is because when someone says this is going to take time, that doesn’t sell.

I always get questions, “how long is this going to take”? “How fast can I get what I want”? Those are the questions I always hear. And when I tell people don’t set a time limit many of them get frustrated and move on to the next shiny object .

I feel for these people because they’re never going to achieve what they want to achieve by looking for that magic phrase that’s going to get them what they want. They want their whole life to change in 30 minutes or less when it took them 30 years to get where they are .

They need to realize that they have to change from the inside and doing that is not going to be easy. It is a simple process, but it’s not necessarily an easy endeavor. There’s going to be work. Unfortunately, most people don’t want to hear that.

Neville Goddard, one of the most well-known people and authors in the manifesting world, always states that you must change from the inside. He said that to change your outside world first is a futile attempt. He always said you cannot change the other person, you must change your self, and then the other person will reflect that change back to you . So try as you may to get your SP to “conform“ to your desires and wishes is not and will not be sustainable. You have to change and then after a period of time you will see that change reflected back to you through the people, places, things, and circumstances in your physical reality.

A lot of the things that are going to be needed to change within you are so deep and hidden that most of us don’t even realize they are there. I cannot express to you how many times I have had clients in a session stop and say I never realized I had that belief or that thought.

You are not going to change after 130 minute coaching session. It is going to take time for you to move from your current state into the state that you desire. That is why we no longer offer the one time coaching sessions. To me it’s a complete waste of money for my clients and a waste of both of our time.

I have been at this for more than 30 years and I am still learning every single day. So stop trying to chase that shiny object. Stop trying to throw your desire into a microwave and pressing the 30 second button and hoping that upon that ding your desire will pop out of that microwave exactly like you want it. It’s just simply not going to be that simple you’re going to need to put the work in.

You’re going to need to figure out what it is you want in detail. Know exactly what you want and then stick with it. Then you’ll need to see yourself as the person that would have those qualities or be that person. Then once you have that you need to persist in knowing that you are already that person. You are already in possession of that car, job, house etc.

Be the person you want to be. Shift into the reality where that person exists. Live in that state and stay there until your 3D physical world shows it back to you.

But don’t make the same mistake so many others have.

Once you have set the intention of what you desire, let the desire to “have” the object of your desire go. You cannot desire what you already have. Drop the need to have it. To need something means lack. Therefore you’ll continue to have lack in your life in that area as well as others in your life.

Let go of trying to figure out how it’s going to happen. That’s not your job. When you set your intention God, the universe, source intelligence has already figured it all out. You just get in the way and delay things when you want to help things along.

Once you’ve done all of that you just relax in the knowing that it is already done and you “live from that end”.

You’ve got this. Anthony.