Getting your SP to “conform”

Many of us in the manifesting world, especially those of us who connect ourselves with law of assumption, are very familiar with this word “conform”

We hear it all the time.  “I can’t get my SP to conform to what I want”.  “he’s not conforming to what I am manifesting”.  “She just won’t conform”. 

I personally do not like this word in the context that it is used in law of assumption. And let me tell you why. 

Law of assumption is based on the premise that, for us to change our outside reality, we must first change what we are on the inside of us. In other words we must change the assumptions that we have of not only ourselves but of the world around us. That is why Neville Goddard called it the law of assumption.

We have and make assumptions that are based on experiences we have had in our lives and those assumptions are pushed out into our reality and are then reflected back to us in the people , places, things and circumstances of our lives.  We create what happens, who comes into and what things we have in our lives based upon the assumptions and perceptions we have of both ourselves and the world around us.

In our imagination, we are assuming that something that we are thinking about or imagining is true whether it is true or not. And so no matter what that is, whether it be good, bad, or indifferent, if you imagine that thing with feelings, in other words, you actually experience it in your imagination, it will come to fruition .

Now what most people don’t realize is that before we came to the law of assumption, we were using it all the time. When you sat and worried about something like a bill coming due and you didn’t have the funds to pay that bill and you worried about all sorts of different scenarios happening , one of those scenarios happened. You imagined that instance with passion, and it came to fruition. But what many people do not realize is that while we were doing this, we always imagined it in the first person, and sometimes we would imagine a person saying or doing a certain thing to us and we would react to that in our imagination with feeling.  An emotion would arise within us concerning this imagination and then that situation would get imprinted onto the screen of our subconscious.

With the false idea that through thought and imagination we could get whomever we wanted to conform to our desires, because they were in our reality, we came to the conclusion that we could get them to conform to our wishes within our reality. 

That is not entirely true, and in my opinion is less true than it is more true and this is why. 

In every ancient text that speaks about self improvement, and they all do, we are always admonished to change ourselves inside before we will see that change reflected back to us. Nowhere, does it say to change the other person first. 

Now, when Neville speaks about helping another person by imagining that person in the way that they wish to be, this is how he is telling us to do this. 

We must in our imagination experience the perception of that person changed in whatever form we desire, and to have that person confirm that change back to us in our imagination. In our imagination, they must perceive you, seeing them in the way you are desiring them to be.  So , if your SP never wears blue shirts and your favorite color is blue and you feel that he or she would look fantastic in a blue shirt, you just can’t simply say in your mind that Johnny will start wearing blue shirts. Because he will not conform. You have not changed your perception of Johnny and he has not confirmed that perception back to you in your imagination. Neville also said that while you are doing this, if the other person you are trying to change has a deep seeded belief that they would never ever ever wear a blue shirt, and it is out of the realm of possibility for them to even think of wearing a blue shirt, they will not wear a blue shirt.

So most of the time, when I hear people say that their SP will not conform to what they want, it is because they themselves have not changed the perception of who they are in respect to what they want to see in their SP, and they have not seen their SP confirm that back to them.

So people, stop trying to make your special person conform to your desires. Instead, change who you are first. Change the perceptions you have of your world and then watch the world reflect those perceptions back to you.  Then live from that assumption.  Feel it as much as you can in your imagination.  This is what will get you the desires of your heart.  You change you first and then the world will reflect that change back to you.  This is “living in the end”

You’ve got this.  Anthony